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WEAK-POINT OF PARENTS

When I saw in news, that Daud is in depression because of his son, there was no surprise for me. Because now, this is admitted fact that everyone can fight against the whole world, but not against own issues. So Daud who in his whole life fought against many nations and against the mankind, became helpless towards his Son. So taking disadvantages of this truth, many times, the children emotionally blackmail parents and compel the parents to behave according to their wishes.
        In childhood, many among us ,had seen the movie “ Molakarin”. As I was child,I wasn't understanding why that mother was tolerating the behaviour of her son and of daughter-in-law. Why was she forgiving her son and loving him? Afterward I read the story of Hirakani. Moreover I read news about a mother that when a tiger attacked her son, she fought with that tiger and saved her son. Then I came to know that for the sons and daughters, the parents are always ready to struggle against the whole world. Even though any son is behaving harshly, roughly or rudely,even that son has kept his parents in a rest home,yet the parents are waiting for their son.
         In short,it is true that for son or daughter, mother or father , everyone is ready to struggle against the whole world, but none can struggle against own issues. Here everyone becomes helpless. He can try to convince his children, can impose some restrictions, but at last, everyone has to lean against children's stubbornness. In Mahabharata, Dhritrashtra  found himself helpless. Now a day also, in politics, we can see many such examples of helpless parents. In our surroundings also, there are many examples of helpless parents. So in many houses, there are illiterate and rowdy sons of well- educated and pious parents.
                 

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