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SUCCESS MANTRAS--(3)

Whenever we are unsuccessful in our any work or duty, this is a mostly common tendency of us that we blame others or the circumstances for it. We want to convince others as well as ourselves also that we hadn't done any mistake.Some times it is true also. And after this failure, we give up our efforts. But instead of blaming someone for our failure, if we shall try to find out any opportunity from the circumstances, perhaps we will achieve success. In our society, we can see such persons, who faced very critical circumstances and became successful in their lives. Such persons are treated as idols by the society. Stephen Hawking,Helen Keller, Sudha Chandran are the best examples of this type. In our surroundings also, we see that a son of a housemaid or a son of a labourer becoming a collector or a famous surgeon.
         At least, we should not give up our efforts only after our first try. Perhaps on next-door, success is waiting for us. It is not easy, because after your failure, in your surroundings, you meet many persons who are criticising and discouraging you. At the same time, it is also necessary that after so many efforts, we have to reconsider about our goal, and to change our goal. So, in life, it is important to take proper decision about where to stop and where to retry and to which extent.
     So, instead of blaming others for our failure, it is better to fight against the reasons and to improve ourselves and to take proper decision about where to stop and where to retry, is one of success mantra. 

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