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Drawbacks in life

                    Drawbacks in life                                                        Have you noticed that in our surroundings if any person is less smart than average, the society treats him as if he is mad or very clumsy. If any person is suffering from pains in knees,yet he is eager for going on travel, the persons around him , instead of encouraging him, they protest him ,ridicule him by saying that he had traveled much and enjoyed much in previous life, so now he should not go out anywhere, but he should remain at home. If there is any bitter incident in anyone's life, after some period,that person tries to forget it and to come out from the effects of that incident,the persons around him , knowingly or unknowingly refer the incident and don't allow him to forget it. If our any friend or relative had done something wrong with us, afterward even though he had realised his mistake, apologized many times,yet we don't forgive him by heart.                                                                        In short , if there are some drawbacks In anyone's life, the society enlarges them,while everyone knows that in every person there are some drawbacks and no one is perfect in life. Yet everyone tries to hide his drawbacks and tries to find out other's drawbacks and to exaggerate them. What can be the reason behind it? Perhaps, everyone wants to prove that in society ,he is the best and supper than others. But as we know that no one is perfect,it is very easy to shorten others than to upraise ourselves by work or by virtues.                                               Yet in society sometimes, rarely, we can see such persons, who frankly admit their mistakes, say sorry and at the same time,they forgive others,as well as they can praise others by heart. Only such persons can create healthy relations with others and if everyone in society will adopt these virtues, the whole society will become healthy and happy society.                          Once,a teacher wrote a table of nine on the board. She purposely wrote 9 ×2=19. The whole remaining table was correct. Every student in that class tried to point out teacher’s mistake. The teacher then explained that in that table there was only one mistake, but every student neglected the correct table and pointed out and emphasized the only one mistake, in life also if there is any drawback, the world around you will neglect your bright side and will emphasize on your drawback. So she advised the students not to do mistakes and to remove drawbacks from life. 

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