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  I suppose myself very lucky, because I got so good and generous father-in- law. He, really gave me support like my father. 40 years ago, this man of previous generation, encouraged me for more education and for my carrier. In Fact I was graduate at the time of my marriage,and according to the customs of that period, it was prestigious for the family, and after marriage, in every in-law family, it was expected that after marriage, the lady must give preference to the households and not to carrier. In such circumstances, he told me that I must take more education and start some honourable job, as I was scholar in my academic life. At the same time, he didn't compel me to choose any specific carrier. When I decided to take degree in law, he was happy. By chance, my guide in that field, was his friend.          He also admired my cooking. On every festival, our family was joint family. And after gent’s  dinner, when we all ladies...

In everyone's life, there is an important place for parents. I don't know, whether this is everyone's experience or not, but in my life, in my old age,I am feeling very much sad for their non-existent. In fact, they gave me full quota of all virtues to face all problems in life alone. Yet, for mental support and encouragement, I miss them. My father taught me that we must keep the word and the time, promised by us to anyone else. And this principle pulled success in my life in every field. My father was a teacher and yet he never compelled me to study for hours and hours, nor he placed load on me for first number in class nor for persentages in any exam. In my college life, he showed full confidence on me, and in the whole life, he was my best supporter and best advisor. I could discuss my all problems with him. He was famous for discipline, but I never felt his discipline as troublesome. On my every success, his admiration for me, reflected in his eyes and through his wo...

If you are suffering from cold, and your nose is flowing, will you cut your nose, or will you take treatment for the cold? You will think, what a silly question! Sorry to say, but our govt.has decided to cut the nose for the disease. Ban on plastic, is this decision. No doubt,that plastic is increasing pollution and the wastage of plastic is proving impediment in natural flow of water in rivers and it is the main substance for the stagnation of gutters. No doubt that this plastic is non- dissolvable. So disposal of the wastage of this plastic proved headache for the world. Again, the animals are eating this plastic and it is harmful for their health. So, this problem, created by wastage of plastic is now dangerous like a monster and day by day, this monster is growing fast.           But at the same time, we can't deny the benefits of plastic. It is so convenient to use that it has now an important place in every person’s life. It i...

  Even though, adulteration is crime, now a day, there is adulteration in almost every thing. There is adulteration in eatables like oil, ghee, mustard, turmeric, chilli powder, pepper, salt, honey, saffron, pulses,panir, ice-cream. There are chemicals sprinkled on vegetables to look fresh. Many times, fruits are rippen with the help of chemicals. Many times, apples are coated with wax to look attractive and fresh. Many times, watermelons are injected with chemicals to be sweet and red. In farms the farmers are using so much fertilizer, that it is affecting the crops and that crop is becoming injurious for health. In gold and silver jewelry, there can be adulteration of  alloyed metal. If we become ill because of the adulteration,and we take medicine, there is adulteration in medicine also. In short, today, purity has become rare.       This purity hasn't become rare only in eatables and other things, but also in mankind's relationship. So ma...

Have you seen any young lady of 20 to 25 years old with tension on her face for the whole day,it seems that she is the only person who has to solve all problems of the whole world. So, she has no time to waste in enjoying the life. For her,looking movie,TV serials, eating pizza, burger and noodles is sin. For her, chatting with friends or relatives is bad as well as laughing with open mind is bad. But for her , everyone should be busy in household and in education or in job. In school, college or in office also, such ladies don't waste time in other social activities. In short, their philosophy of life is that we must live only to fulfill our duties and responsibilities.In this sense, we can call them “Worriors".      You will ask me with puzzle,”In which world are you living? Whether above mentioned examples are possible in these days?”But,I met not only a lady of above type, but many girls and women of above category. In our society, there are two extreme...

Every year,when June month starts, the Marathi women start to see the calendar to know on which day, Marathi month Jyeshtha is starting and on which day there is Vat Savitri Purnima.  Because after thousands of years, today also Savitri is the ideal wife for every married Marathi woman. Majority of these women yet respect their husband as a head of their family. Even though, now many ladies are earning money and have much freedom, yet they also respect their husband and his opinions.I know that there are some examples that in some families, the wife is of dominating nature and so in that family she is the head of their family. Yet at least,on Vat Savitri Purnima, these dominating wives also behave as an ideal wife. They also worship the bunyan tree and pray for husband's long life.          But, when this June started,on T. V.news channel, I saw two shocking news about two ladies. One lady hired a killer to kill her husband. Because...

 Have you noticed that in your surroundings, there are some persons, who became successful in their field only because of luck. In Fact sometimes it happens that an MBA person fails in his business, and a new comer business-man, without any degree of business or without any experience, becomes successful. Again there are some persons, who were not serious about their future, accidentally started any business and became very successful. Sometimes, an actor who had completed his study about acting in foreign country,had struggled sincerely, yet couldn't become popular in his life. While an actor, without any degree of acting,can do natural acting, and public also appreciates his acting, and he becomes super star. And so, it is believed that acting or business skill should be in blood. Sometimes, there are some persons,whom merely their luck gave them chance in any field and they became successful.        In our surroundings, we can see a person...