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  It is believed that God always behaves ideal. So almost our all myths when tell us about God’s incarnation as a human being, they draw His character as ideal in His childhood and in young age also. Only,God Krishna is shown as behaving according to the age like a human being. From His childhood and in His throughout whole life, there is a mischievousness, which is very much liked by all human beings. Perhaps so, everyone feels more attachment for Krishna. Because, even in old age also even an ideal and disciplined human being likes mischievousness, though he himself could never behave so. In childhood, Krishna played fully with his friends, even stole curd and butter from milkmaid's houses with friends. At the same time, being God, he killed many monsters also. In young age, He played “Rasleela”with the milkmaid's. When He helped Arjuna to marry with His sister Subhadra, very mischievously he deceived Balaram. It means God Krishna is the best combination of God and human be...

 Some days ago, I have heard and seen a very different news on news channel. Always, we see and experience the love of a mother for the babies. Then the mother can be human being or other animals. Such mother never differs in her own child and the babies of any other category. So sometimes, in our surroundings, we can see a human being mother loves and feeds an animal baby. And an animal mother brings up a human baby. It is really admirable but not unbelievable. I saw the news that a tiger baby- a cub, at night entered in a house, saw a human mother sleeping on a cot in a mosquito net with her baby. The cub also slept near that baby and that mother on that cot in the mosquito net. That cub slept there so soundly that his sleep didn't disturb while that mother awake and carried her baby outside the house and shut the door and locked up that cub. Perhaps that cub envied that human baby’s luck to sleep so comfortably with mother and so the cub also tried to get that comfort. Moreove...

It is believed that the human being is God’s special creation. Because God gave a fully developed brain to human being.  And on the strength of this intelligence, human being made his life easier and more comfortable than other animals. Again on this strength of this intelligence, he uses all other animals to work for him. Now a day, it is admitted fact that every person has a common sense to think about what is good or bad for himself. Moreover, now media is playing an active role to aware even the illiterate  person living far away from city also, about the hidden truth behind the political incidents. Yet, when mob mortgages his brain and does destructive deeds,it irritates.When the mob burns buses in strike period, why don't they think that the public transport department of govt. will increase the price of passenger tickets and will compensate their loss. Means, ultimately we, the all public will have to pay the compensation.      In last week...

Through previous three articles, I explained my feelings of gratefulness towards my good and ideal teachers. Their ideal yet loving nature influenced me. At the same time, though I was unaware, a teacher in my personality was taking shape. Though I hadn't chosen teaching job, when we started Nursery class of English medium, occasionally, I had to work as an honorary teacher. In that school, I never got a single naya paisa, but I achieved so much love by my students, which can't be counted in money. In the beginning period of our school’s foundation, whenever, the teacher of our nursery class was absent, I used to go in the school as a teacher. At that time, many parents gave me compliments that whenever their son or daughter was noticing that for that day I was their teacher, they were eager to come in classroom without saying goodbye to their parents. On a day, when I visited the class,in the presence of their teacher, many students in that class, stood up and embraced me as...

  After my graduation, there was a gap of ten years in my education. During these ten years, I got married and I wanted to settle in my in-laws, moreover after my marriage, I had two issues. So, it was necessary for me, to give full time for my family. Yet, without any planning or not with any purpose, however,I started social work. In this new field, there was one ideal person--Dalal Madam. Infact, I entered in social work only because of this Dalal Madam. She always guided me and always helped me in my social work. We found a private primary school, as well as, we worked together in our Mahila-Mandal for many years. So, in my life, Dalal Madam became a Guru, guide as well as my close friend also.      After this gap of ten years, we, means I and my husband decided for my further education. I wanted to become a lawyer, my husband also liked it, he encouraged me,yet I had no confidence about my capacity. So I was hesitating and avoiding to take admissi...

 In last week,I have started the topic--Tribute to teachers. But,as in my life,I met many too good teachers,I must continue the topic. Till, we were learning in tenth class, sometimes, we all students from my class, were insisting our some specific teachers to relieve us for playing on ground or for telling us any story in the period. And the teachers were indulging it. When I was learning in eighth class, my father was our class-teacher. In the beginning of the year, I was in tension that if my father would punish the students in my class, those students would take revenge on me. But, such never happened. My father never punished us, and he became their favourite teacher. At that time I realised that the students in our whole school, were honouring my father not because of fear, but to show the respect towards him.             When I was learning in the tenth class, there was Kotwal madam to teach us Sanskrit. She...

           In everyone's life, after parents, the teachers have an important role. Generally, for discipline and for the compulsion of study, in childhood, none likes school nor study. Again, before fifty years,the schools and the study was not at all attractive like today. Yet, in such days, in my whole academic life, I met many loving teachers. Perhaps, I was good in study,so, even in my primary school also our teachers never punished me.In first and second class, Wani madam was our teacher and I and my friends used to go to our madam’s house to play. So we never feared about her. This is true that she also behaved very lovingly and softly with me. Infact, till fourth class, I was not aware about my first number in class. In those days, only Z.P.’s primary school was available in our town. So there were no awards for the first number in class. But afterward, when I became grown up, my mother told me about my first number.     ...

  I suppose myself very lucky, because I got so good and generous father-in- law. He, really gave me support like my father. 40 years ago, this man of previous generation, encouraged me for more education and for my carrier. In Fact I was graduate at the time of my marriage,and according to the customs of that period, it was prestigious for the family, and after marriage, in every in-law family, it was expected that after marriage, the lady must give preference to the households and not to carrier. In such circumstances, he told me that I must take more education and start some honourable job, as I was scholar in my academic life. At the same time, he didn't compel me to choose any specific carrier. When I decided to take degree in law, he was happy. By chance, my guide in that field, was his friend.          He also admired my cooking. On every festival, our family was joint family. And after gent’s  dinner, when we all ladies...

In everyone's life, there is an important place for parents. I don't know, whether this is everyone's experience or not, but in my life, in my old age,I am feeling very much sad for their non-existent. In fact, they gave me full quota of all virtues to face all problems in life alone. Yet, for mental support and encouragement, I miss them. My father taught me that we must keep the word and the time, promised by us to anyone else. And this principle pulled success in my life in every field. My father was a teacher and yet he never compelled me to study for hours and hours, nor he placed load on me for first number in class nor for persentages in any exam. In my college life, he showed full confidence on me, and in the whole life, he was my best supporter and best advisor. I could discuss my all problems with him. He was famous for discipline, but I never felt his discipline as troublesome. On my every success, his admiration for me, reflected in his eyes and through his wo...

If you are suffering from cold, and your nose is flowing, will you cut your nose, or will you take treatment for the cold? You will think, what a silly question! Sorry to say, but our govt.has decided to cut the nose for the disease. Ban on plastic, is this decision. No doubt,that plastic is increasing pollution and the wastage of plastic is proving impediment in natural flow of water in rivers and it is the main substance for the stagnation of gutters. No doubt that this plastic is non- dissolvable. So disposal of the wastage of this plastic proved headache for the world. Again, the animals are eating this plastic and it is harmful for their health. So, this problem, created by wastage of plastic is now dangerous like a monster and day by day, this monster is growing fast.           But at the same time, we can't deny the benefits of plastic. It is so convenient to use that it has now an important place in every person’s life. It i...

  Even though, adulteration is crime, now a day, there is adulteration in almost every thing. There is adulteration in eatables like oil, ghee, mustard, turmeric, chilli powder, pepper, salt, honey, saffron, pulses,panir, ice-cream. There are chemicals sprinkled on vegetables to look fresh. Many times, fruits are rippen with the help of chemicals. Many times, apples are coated with wax to look attractive and fresh. Many times, watermelons are injected with chemicals to be sweet and red. In farms the farmers are using so much fertilizer, that it is affecting the crops and that crop is becoming injurious for health. In gold and silver jewelry, there can be adulteration of  alloyed metal. If we become ill because of the adulteration,and we take medicine, there is adulteration in medicine also. In short, today, purity has become rare.       This purity hasn't become rare only in eatables and other things, but also in mankind's relationship. So ma...

Have you seen any young lady of 20 to 25 years old with tension on her face for the whole day,it seems that she is the only person who has to solve all problems of the whole world. So, she has no time to waste in enjoying the life. For her,looking movie,TV serials, eating pizza, burger and noodles is sin. For her, chatting with friends or relatives is bad as well as laughing with open mind is bad. But for her , everyone should be busy in household and in education or in job. In school, college or in office also, such ladies don't waste time in other social activities. In short, their philosophy of life is that we must live only to fulfill our duties and responsibilities.In this sense, we can call them “Worriors".      You will ask me with puzzle,”In which world are you living? Whether above mentioned examples are possible in these days?”But,I met not only a lady of above type, but many girls and women of above category. In our society, there are two extreme...

Every year,when June month starts, the Marathi women start to see the calendar to know on which day, Marathi month Jyeshtha is starting and on which day there is Vat Savitri Purnima.  Because after thousands of years, today also Savitri is the ideal wife for every married Marathi woman. Majority of these women yet respect their husband as a head of their family. Even though, now many ladies are earning money and have much freedom, yet they also respect their husband and his opinions.I know that there are some examples that in some families, the wife is of dominating nature and so in that family she is the head of their family. Yet at least,on Vat Savitri Purnima, these dominating wives also behave as an ideal wife. They also worship the bunyan tree and pray for husband's long life.          But, when this June started,on T. V.news channel, I saw two shocking news about two ladies. One lady hired a killer to kill her husband. Because...

 Have you noticed that in your surroundings, there are some persons, who became successful in their field only because of luck. In Fact sometimes it happens that an MBA person fails in his business, and a new comer business-man, without any degree of business or without any experience, becomes successful. Again there are some persons, who were not serious about their future, accidentally started any business and became very successful. Sometimes, an actor who had completed his study about acting in foreign country,had struggled sincerely, yet couldn't become popular in his life. While an actor, without any degree of acting,can do natural acting, and public also appreciates his acting, and he becomes super star. And so, it is believed that acting or business skill should be in blood. Sometimes, there are some persons,whom merely their luck gave them chance in any field and they became successful.        In our surroundings, we can see a person...

Whenever we are unsuccessful in our any work or duty, this is a mostly common tendency of us that we blame others or the circumstances for it. We want to convince others as well as ourselves also that we hadn't done any mistake.Some times it is true also. And after this failure, we give up our efforts. But instead of blaming someone for our failure, if we shall try to find out any opportunity from the circumstances, perhaps we will achieve success. In our society, we can see such persons, who faced very critical circumstances and became successful in their lives. Such persons are treated as idols by the society. Stephen Hawking,Helen Keller, Sudha Chandran are the best examples of this type. In our surroundings also, we see that a son of a housemaid or a son of a labourer becoming a collector or a famous surgeon.          At least, we should not give up our efforts only after our first try. Perhaps on next-door, success is waiting for us...

For success, there can't be only a single mantra, but when  there is mixture of many success mantras in proper proportion, that person can be a successful person.  Every day, we listen and see many examples of adulteration in market and so we don't trust easily any company or any businessman. So for them means for the company and the businessman, it's very important and difficult to achieve the trust of consumers. At the same time, it is also true that to achieve the trust, only integrity is the best remedy. There is no other option for it. When we see that many families are very successful in their family business from more than hundred years,the key of their success is this integrity.         Not only in business field, but in every field of our life, this integrity is the key of success. Even though, we  are doing service in private field or in government sector , our promotion depends upon our integrity towards our duty. I ...

Now a days, it is a well established policy of every political party to pretend that their party is the only party, who cares for the citizens and works only for the benefit of the poors. At the same time, to be successful in their policy, they try to  prove that other political parties are deceiving the public. So the public should only trust their party. But, whether this element- to prove ourselves to be the best- exists only in political parties?No.  From our birth, every day we are learning the art of living. From our experiences, we are learning and improving ourselves. None is here perfect. In every person, there are some virtues and some vices. Yet, here everyone wants to prove that he is better than others. Even though, any person is not better than others, without improving himself, he finds out the vices of other persons, and tries to prove that he is better than them. So, while, you are trying to be best, many persons surrounding you, wish that you should be clum...

Every one knows that this is nature’s circle that after summer there is rainy season and after it there is winter. We also know that all these three seasons are very necessary for all living beings on the earth. Yet when the heat is extreme in summer, there are some deaths of living beings. Again in rainy season , when there is extreme rain, the flood can carries away whole town. In winter also when there is extreme cold, there is loss of life of some living beings.  In short, I want to say that even though all three seasons are initially necessary, their execiveness spoil their virtues. Similarly, in human being also if any virtue is extreme, it becomes vice. We can call it a virtuous vice.          Infact, saving money is a virtue. Saving a penny is gaining money. But in our surroundings, we see some persons with exessive quantity of this virtue. I have seen a much rich person who had declined to change the tube of gas, even sugge...

Some days ago, I read on WhatsApp about female scorpion, that  she gives birth to 6- 7 baby scorpions at one time. After birth, when these babies become hungry and as their mother has nothing to give them, the baby scorpions start to bite and eat their mother. And that mother allows them and to feed her babies,she accepts her death. What an extreme type of mother's love!What an example of mother's sacrifice for her babies! At the same time, I remembered that I have heard about a cat that she also gives birth to 3- 4 kittens at a time. And after giving birth to her kittens, that mother cat eats a kitten. It is said that it is necessary for her health. It is the only medicine and tonic for that mother cat. So the cat feels nothing odd for her such behaviour. Both these animals behave according to their natural instincts. The mother monkey's example is again different. We all know the story of a mother monkey, that she tried to save her baby from sinking in the water, but wh...

Now, there is summer. So, naturally, there is shortage of water. Municipal corporation is supplying water after two day’s gap. So,at the time of water supply, there is rush on public tap. Many times there are quarrels, which sometimes turn into fighting. In summer, in every city, town and village, this picture is common. But whenever I see such quarrel, I remember a real incident. In a summer, we all family members were out of station. So there was lock to our house. On our terrace, there was a lotus plant in a big  pot. In that pot, there was much water. On that day, a group of six monkeys came on our terrace by jumping from one terrace to another. They were thirsty. They saw the water in that lotus pot. They drank that water. But to drink that water , they made pairs and at a time only two monkeys drank water and others waited silently for their turn. And they all drank the water in a way that not a single monkey even touched or harmed the lotus plant.  Though we weren't a...